How To Decorate Your Bedroom

I believe home is the most important place on earth. And as much as our entire home is a retreat and safe space, our bedrooms are even more so because we spend so much time there. But often, it’s one of the very last rooms we decorate and make our own in our homes. Here’s how to decorate your bedroom retreat, step-by-step!

How to Decorate a Bedroom

Decorating a bedroom is actually really simple when you break it down into a step-by-step process like I’m going to do here. Ready? Here goes…

1. Choose a style for your bedroom

Choosing your decorating style is the FIRST STEP in creating a beautiful bedroom because every decorating choice you make is based on the decorating style that makes your heart happy.

All of these are informed by your style:

• Paint colors
• Patterns
• Furniture
• Rugs
• Curtains
• Art
• Lighting

If you don’t know your unique decorating style yet, check out this blog post, or take our free Find Your Style quiz.  

2. Pick a Color Scheme/Palette

After you know what style you will decorate your bedroom in, you need to choose a color palette that goes with that style. 

As always, with color, I recommend that you choose a general color scheme, and then pull specific colors from an inspiration piece. In a bedroom, this inspiration piece could be an area rug, a piece of art, or bedding that you adore. 

Change colors if needed

We’ve actually repainted our bedroom already a couple of times. I didn’t follow my own advice and the first color I chose a couple of days after moving in, without fully considering the north-facing light or the blue reflection from the pool half the year. The second color was lovely and worked much better. But given such cool natural lighting, it was time to go even warmer with our color choice…and to finally paint all that trim too. 

Originally, we were going to paint the trim (wainscoting, chair rail, baseboard, door trim, and crown molding) a lovely creamy mushroom or latte color and the upper walls a beautiful warm white. But once we started (and after finishing the floor-to-ceiling green in the guest bath), we decided to paint the entire master bedroom in a warm neutral color (Valspar Soft Stones 6008-1C, if you were wondering). 

3. Plan the layout

Once you’ve nailed your style and colors, and before you actually do anything with the space, you need to plan where the bigger pieces will go. To do this:

Consider How the Room Functions

Think about the traffic flow.

• What areas of the room do you need to access easily?
• Is there a clear path to the bathroom, say in the middle of the night?
• Can you access your closet easily?

What do you use the room for aside from sleeping? Maybe you need a reading corner with a chair and a light to do your daily devotions. Or perhaps you want to work out in your room too. Consider all the activities that will occur in your bedroom, and make a list of the pieces you need to fit in, as well as any that you’d like to make room for, but that are more wishlist items than must-haves. 

In our bedroom, we needed: 

• a bed and bed frame (king-size at this point in our lives!)
• bedside tables
• a dresser
• a chair for daily reading

And we like to have:

• a tv (this really only gets used for when someone is sick in bed, but I hope to use it to do more yoga, etc. in the New Year)
• the electric fireplace (our room gets quite chilly in winter)
• a pretty bench at the foot of our bed

Choose a Focal Point

All rooms need a focal point to keep from feeling scattered or overwhelmed with no clear focus.

Once you know all that needs to happen in your bedroom, choose where your focal point will be. In a bedroom, this is most likely the wall the bed is against. But it may also be a fireplace or something else. 

Just remember you want to keep your space to one focal point whenever possible. 

Know Your Measurements

Of course, you need to know your room’s measurements before choosing any new pieces or moving in any pieces you already have in other spaces. 

Measure out your room. Then gather measurements of the furniture pieces you plan to put into the bedroom. Sketch a floor plan if that helps, noting electrical outlets and heating vents too.

Optional: Tape It Out

If drawing the room’s layout isn’t helpful or your brain just doesn’t work well with that sort of tool, try using painter’s tape on the floor to illustrate where things will go. 

We did this when we were putting up a new wall in our bungalow to separate our master bedroom from the hallway (long story). It was incredibly helpful for visualizing and getting a feel for the space. 

4. Carefully choose your bedroom furniture

Because it’s so costly, bedroom furniture is generally with us for the long haul. So choose carefully and don’t buy anything on a whim. 

Keep Scale in Mind

Keep the scale of the bedroom furniture you want in mind. If you want a king-size bed, but the room won’t hold it, obviously you need to scale down to a queen. If you can fit in the king-size bed, keep in mind walking space around the bed, and perhaps choose smaller scale nightstands or a smaller dresser. 

Prioritize Storage

Keeping storage in mind is especially important if you have a small bedroom. You’ll need room to store out-of-season clothes and bedding.

Choose furniture pieces that have ample space for your things so that you can avoid the clutter that plagues so many bedrooms.

Of course, you can declutter too and minimize your belongings if you’re tight on space. 

Bed and Mattress

You spend a lot of time in bed and your bed and mattress should last you a long time. Especially since they usually cost a good chunk of change. 

One of our best purchases was the queen-size mattress and box spring set that we bought when I finished college. It served us well for almost 20 years and now that we have a king-size bed, that queen-size set is in our guest bedroom and our guests tell us it’s as comfy as ever.

If at all possible, this is where you splurge in a bedroom makeover and get the best, comfiest mattress you can afford. 

Wardrobes and dressers

Depending upon your closet space, you will likely need to include wardrobes and/or dressers in your bedroom makeover plans. 

• Do you have room for a tallboy style dresser or wardrobe (tall and narrow) or would your room better work with a classic dresser (wide and shorter)? 

In our room, we have one large dresser that I use for much of my clothes. While Dean keeps all of his clothes in the closet organizer in our walk-in closet. 

Nightstands and bedside tables

Bedside tables are a must. Or something – even a wall-mounted shelf or bookshelf – that functions as a bedside table to hold necessary nighttime things like a glass of water, books, and a lamp. Choose a nightstand that will hold the things that YOU need. Drawers are often very helpful. 

Keep the height of your nightstands in mind too. I’ve mentioned that we have a king-sized bed, which is quite large, and despite getting low-profile box springs, is quite tall. And yet, the cabinets we used for the last few years were actually too tall in reality – we couldn’t reach our lamps to turn them off from in bed!

So for our recent master bedroom makeover, we bought a couple of second-hand nightstands on Facebook Marketplace. Dean sanded off the white paint (someone had painted them in the flattest, whitest paint ever!) and then just waxed them with a dark beeswax that we’ve had here forever. 

Chairs/benches

If you want a place to sit and read or do devotions each morning, or just a quiet corner to escape from the kids (shhh, I won’t tell!), you may want to consider adding a chair to your bedroom. 

And a bedroom looks super complete with a bench at the end of the bed – if you have room for one. 

Mirrors

Most bedrooms will also need mirrors – for trying on clothes or checking your hair. Decide whether you’ll hang one over your dresser, or just put a full-length mirror in the closet. 

5. Layer your bedroom lighting

There are three types of lighting for use in your home: General Lighting, Task Lighting, and Accent Lighting. Bedrooms are no different than other spaces when it comes to lighting.

• General Lighting – You will want to have an overhead ceiling light fixture, chandelier, or table lamp that is easily turned on and off when entering and exiting your room. 
• Task Lighting – You will also want to have specific lighting for reading or other tasks that you perform in your bedroom, like applying makeup for example. At the very least you will want to have some sort of lighting or bedside lamp on your nightstand. 
• Accent/Mood Lighting – Accent Lighting provides extra “oomph” and extra dimension to a room by accenting special features such as art, architectural features, plants, etc. Accent lighting can be achieved with track lighting, wall-mounted lights, or recessed lights. Dimmers also help to add to the mood lighting effect. 

6. Add softness and comfort underfoot with a rug

Whether you have wall-to-wall broadloom, hardwood, or another type of flooring, adding an area rug in the bedroom is a good idea. 

Area rugs can be used to tie your bedroom’s color palette together, add softness and texture to your room. 

7. Invest in the best bedding and throw pillows

Along with your mattress, bedding tends to stick with us for a long time. 

When you’re on a budget it can be tempting to buy cheap sheets. But I encourage you to buy at least decent quality bedding that will hold up well and be comfortable. You can always add more sets later. 

My favorite types of bedding for each season is:

• Linen in Spring and Fall (my favorite linen bedding is from MagicLinen (affiliate link))
• Cotton in Summer (because in summer our bedroom is hot!)
• Flannel in Winter (because in winter our bedroom is so cold!)

Layer Bedding

Layering your bedding and mixing and matching is also a lovely way to make your bedroom feel cozy and collected. Include duvets, quilts, and throw blankets. Mix stripes with florals and solids. Include linen, velvet, wool (if you like that), and cotton. 

Add Throw Pillows

While some hubbies may complain about too many throw pillows on the bed, it’s still perfectly acceptable to add a few. 

On our bed, we keep a collection of throw pillows and sleeping pillows in different sizes and shapes. Here’s How to Style Pillows on a Bed 3 Different Ways.

7. Don’t forget to dress your windows

Windows are another spot you can add both functionality and beauty to a bedroom. 

Room darkening

I’m a bit of a princess (like The Princess and the Pea) and so I like to include room darkening blinds and blackout curtains. Simple roller shades work in our space, but you can get custom blinds and curtains. 

But also pretty

But I also like to have a pretty space too, so I also include curtains on a lovely black metal rod. Of course, you could choose to use whatever sort of draperies and rod you like!

8. Pick out artwork for your bedroom decor

Artwork is another one of those things that adds personality to a space. Whether you decide to display nostalgic family photos as wall art or downloadable printable art in vintage frames, be sure to add some sort of artwork to your bedroom. 

9. Style your nightstand

Of course, nightstands need to be functional, with plenty of storage and some surface space to set down your book, reading glasses, and a cup of water. But they can also be pretty. 

Make it functional, but pretty

If you use a plethora of items each night like I do (chapstick, melatonin, eye drops, etc.) either corral them in a tray or bowl atop your bedside table or place them within easy reach in the top drawer. 

Add flowers or plants/life

Regardless of what else you have on your nightstands, adding some flowers or greenery (faux or real) adds life and organic shape to your room. Put them in a pretty vase, pitcher, or pot and you’ve got additional texture too. 

10. Bonus Tip: Cozy Up by a Fire…or Pretend to

There is something so very cozy about a fireplace in a bedroom.

This house didn’t have a fireplace up here like it does in the living room directly below it. But we did have the electric fireplace from our last house and our master bedroom is the perfect spot for it. 

It’s a lovely spot to style the mantel and the electric heater comes in handy in the middle of winter, since this is the coldest room in the house then. Even just the glow of the electric fire insert is beautiful. 

Summary

Much like decorating any other room in your home, the steps are the same for decorating a bedroom:

1. Decide on your style.
2. Choose a color scheme or palette.
3. Plan the room’s furniture layout.
4. Add area rugs, window treatments, and other fabrics.
5. Incorporate layered lighting.
6. Add art and finishing touches.

Just follow the steps above and you’ll create a cozy, beautiful bedroom that you’ll love!